I am a woman and my sister in law copies everything I do, including what I say, wear, and hobbies that I like. What p*sses my off so bad is that she takes credit for the things I do. Like when I said I was going to join the swim team because my family said I was good a swimming, in college she joined the swim team right after I told her that, even though she played volleyball and never swam a day in her life. I study health and anytime I come up with a conclusion about why something is bad for us, she copies me and tells her husband right in front of me, like it was her idea. If I part my hair on one side, she parts her hair on that side, if I say I want 2 kids, she wants 2 kids.
What in the hell should I do to get her to get her own life and quit trying to live mine? I know she knows what she is doing and it seems like she is trying to be better than me all the time and she tries to get my family to like her better than they like me.
Have you ever hated an in-law sooo bad?
Look like the winning competition program is going on between the two of you...
Don't worry about her...just be yourself.
Maybe try avoid talking to her of the things that you are going to do in future...never mind if she follow what you did....you should be proud that some one admire you so much untill they willing to follow every step you are doing...this show that you are on TOP!
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