Divorce/cheating help?

hey all. ok i am going through a divorce, because my husband has cheated on me 5 times. this is my problem. this last time was 3 times with the same girl. he said he did it because he thought i was cheating. any ways. my problem is all day everyday i think about this girl. she is 34 and is is 24. so i feel like oh, you wanted a woman, or older woman. (i'm 22) he says thats not it at all and that he wasn't even attracted to her and that it didn't even feel good. i asked why'd you do it three times then and he says so he could say he cheated on me if i ever came out and told him i was cheating on him. (he thought i was cheating on him) any ways. how do i get this chick out of my head. i don't think about what they did together, i think about HER. what type of person she is. does she wear her hair this way. how her kids are. stupid stuff. i feel like i am going crazy that i am letting this broad get to me and i don't even know her. what to do to get over it all and be done with it. thanks

Divorce/cheating help?

Once you start dating again you will find yourself thinking about either of them less and less. 20 years from now you might not even remember her name. Try to focus on improving your life, attitude, and surround yourself with uplifting people.

Don't listen to the other answers insulting you, it's normal to think about things like that when your spouse cheats on you.

Divorce/cheating help?

get in the car and leave..come back when you grow up.

Divorce/cheating help?

Get out now and forget them both. BTW, this is not the correct place to post this question.

Divorce/cheating help?

You think about her because you intend to make it all her fault and take the whoredog back.

Divorce/cheating help?

Do not worry about it. People get flustered during divorces. Then when the women finds out, as you, you may not have been cheating and then go on a guilt trip. You may think you are screwed up cuz that is why your husband cheated on you. Not the case now. Some guys find marriage ok, for a short time before they get roving eyes again. In other words, he was not ready to settle down yet.

If anything, I will be more than happy to console you on my shoulders.

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You say you're 22? But going on 11 by the sounds! For gawds sake grow up!

Divorce/cheating help?

Hey, my ex cheated on me...it's not a good feeling. I am sorry for your loss. You need to get together with good friends, people from a clb or church and get a support group going.Get him out of your life and (while it's easy for me to say) move on. Think of it this way....the person he cheated with is getting a cheater for herself...and he will probably cheat on her too!

Divorce/cheating help?

Forget about them. Seriously, put her and him out of your mind.

Also think of it this way: If he's cheated that many times, he is a worthless human being. If she let's him cheat on you many times, she is getting what she deserves, and it will come back to haunt her later.

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If i was u i would find out where she lives so u can talk to her but first of all lets talk about ur husband....I really think he is lying cuz I dont think he'd cheat cuz he thought u was. If u do like i said and go find that broad cuz she might have sumthing that he likes that u dont have. But forget about both of them because i cant stand no cheating man and the thang I hate the most is a man stealing hoe. So wat u need to do is tell him u can do betta cuz there are better men out there that knows how to treat a woman

Divorce/cheating help?

Kill her you troll. Then drive her car to vegas.