Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

My husband's exwife is really picky about the kids' clothes. If the little girl leaves a hair tie here she calls and throws a fit. Anyway, school has started and the kids' do not want to transport the clothes back and forth to school, which I under stand, so we are going to meet once a week at the police station in townto exchange them. The problem is that I live 15 min. from town and she wants to call all of the shots. She calls here all of the time but if I call her (not my husband) she gets EPOs out on him saying that he is harrassing her. And they stick because she has slept w/most of the cops and lawyers in our small town. Can anyone give me adive on how to handle her, or the clothes situation? There has to be an easier way that I am not seeing. thank you.

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

Buy them clothes for when they come to your house. Then as soon as they are there, have them change into the clothes that they have at your house and put theirs in a bag that came from their mothers, when it's time to leave, give them the bag and let them wear them back home.

As for the PPO's, get a small tape recorder and start recording any conversations or visits with her, even if you are at the police station. If she is sleeping around with half the force, he is going to want to save his *** from going to jail. Then you both have proof. And it is not against the law to tape someone without their knowledge if you are in the converstaion.

Look out for yourselves.

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

Tell the B**** to quit complaining, her child support is going for the kids clothing. So let her complain all she wants, once you drive away you don't have to hear her.

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

You're SOL girl, especially since everybody's done the EX!!!

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

Get an answering machine or caller ID and don't take her calls.

Let your husband talk to her.

When the kids pack the clothes that is what goes back with them unless she wants to write a list for you. She can write everything that they packed and you can check it off when they arrive and when they put it back in the bag.

Take back some control. She's not your boss.

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

WHY DO YOU CARE ANYWAY LET YOUR HUSBAND ANSWER HER NOT YOU IF ANY PROBLEMS ARISE STAY OUT OF THE WAY DON'T EVEN ANSWER THE PHONE IF IT IS HER! IF THE GIRLS LEFT HAIR CLIP THINGY AND SHE HAS A FIT SO WHAT....LET YOUR HUSBAND ANSWER HER! NOT YOUR PROBLEM! LET HER DRIVE ALL THE WAY TO YOUR HOUSE TO PICK IT UP AND THROW IT AT HER FACE!

TELL HER SHE HAS TO PACK THE KIDS CLOTHES EVERYDAY AND LET HER PICK IT UP EVERYDAY TO YOUR HOUSE!

YOU MARRIED A GUY WITH A PACKAGE NOW YOU WILL CARRY THAT PACKAGE FOREVER%26gt;%26gt;GOOD LUCK TO YOU!

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

you need to buy clothes for the little girl to keep at your home and when the little girl comes to your house have her take all the clothes off including hair ties and put them in a bag, when she goes back to her moms have her put back on everything that is in the bag.

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

Why not buy the kids clothes to keep at your house. That way the only outfit you have to keep track of is the one they wore the day you pick them up. They can wear that same outfit the day they go back home.

Good luck!

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

Don't answer her calls

Problems w/ stepkids clothes, can anyone help?

Good. A question I'm sure I can nail. Simple. Buy clothes for the kid. Keep them at your home. When the child arrives, have her change into the "special" stuff you and Dad got for her. Put everything she arrives in away. When she goes back to Mom, have her wear the things she arrived in. Silly, probably, but that way, she would leave NOTHING. Avoiding a battle with his ex is better than winning the battle.