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My 22 month old daughter has all of a sudden taken an extreme disliking to having a bath !!!

She used to love it, playing with the bubbles and toys but always hated getting her hair washed as she hates the water going over her face !!! I even tried the visor that goes round her head but over the past month she screams her wee lungs out and grips on to me utterly terrified when i take her in the bath !!!

I don't know why the sudden change !! She is absolutely petrified !

I feel i can't put her through this anymore !

It's easy enough to was her down with a sponge but it's the washing the hair thats a problem.

Has this ever happened with your kids ??

Is it a phase ???

Any advice ??

She won't even let me hold her head over the sink or a basin !

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A phase.

there should be ways to condition/encourage her back.

Try some of thwe books, like "Little Angels" series from the BBC. May have something in there.

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Do you wash her hair everyday? I would let her bath without washing her hair, for a start.

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Yes, my kids all went through it. I also found the sudden change distressing! You can try to get her in the shower with you or otherwise i found letting them wash a dolls hair helps. Buy a cheap one at the $2 shop and tell her if she lets you wash her hair, you'll let her wash dolly hair"all by herself" Make sure you go first though. Other than that don't panic, she'll pick up on your tension and be more scared!! it will pass.....

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mt eldest son is 4 he has never liked his hair washed he jumps up, tries to climb out of the bath screams like hell but you have to be cruel to be kind i usually just go for it hold a flannel over his face while i wash his hair. his dad tips him upside down over the bath to wash his hair he loves that but i cannot do that as he is a big lad, the fear of going in the bath will probably be due to the fact she doesn't want her hair washed. i dunno what to suggest to make it easier as i am in the same boat hopefully they will grow out of it.

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Oh yes. This has happened to me with all 3 of my boys. My youngest is coming up for 4 and he is still the same. I've tried everything from trying to hold him down with one hand to bribery to cajoling etc etc. The fact that my oldest 2 were like it and are now fine makes me think it is just a phase they go through. As they get older they become more aware of 'dangers' and 'fears'. What was once fun where they were totally unaware of the dangers of water become very real to them. You've probably noticed that as the water goes over her head she sucks in air very sharply and holds it, then screams. Their reaction may be extreme to us but to them it is incredibly frightening. I tend to use a dry flannel which my youngest holds over his eyes whilst I put water over his head to wash his hair. He actually allows me to do that now so that's one step forward. Just keep reminding yourself it is a phase, keep reassuring her, let her get involved with the 'wash' (even get her to wash yours one day) and she will start to relax.

I used to wonder what the neighbours must be thinking and that it must sound like I was murdering him! However, things are now quietening down so there is light at the end of the tunnel!

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Yes children do go through this phase however this sounds quite extreme you need to first find out if maybe something happened to her in the bath or swimming when maybe she was with another adult that might of frightened her.

Once you find the cause the problem should be easier to deal with, start by saying she needs to have a bath but make it playful tell her for now you wont wash her hair, let her sit and play in the bath also you could bring her doll in and let her wash her dolls hair with you and show her how do to it properly.

after a while i would say she will settle back in, also try putting her in the shower whilst you're having yours

good luck :--)

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I think it's quite common in girls and if she has longer hair now!

My wife says she was a nightmare at bathtime as a child!

She said it was because she knew her hair would get knotted up and need to be combed and that it hurt her!

You are doing all the right things trying the visors etc, but have you considered that the whole event has become a big fat trauma for her?

Does she need here hair washed so often?

The harder she makes it for you, the more stressed everyone gets too and the longer it all takes, she knows how annoyed you are and it becomes a vicious circle, and you keep on about it cause you dread having to do it yourself!

You feel bad afterwards and it's time consuming and difficult.

For the next few months, make it a quick bathtime dip, quick as possible, and make it all pass over as soon as you can, with minimum fuss, a small amount of water and only use tiny amounts of shampoos and only if feel you can do it easily! Open the caps of the bottles beforehand so she doesn't hear them! Get a small toy water wheel for the bath and a small jug to distract her.

Or for now, just sit her in a dry bath and shower her gently, shower her hands first and make it a bit of a game, see if she can catch the magic 'raindrops' etc, although not getting her head wet, make sure the water is just the right temperature too!

Try not to make a big deal out of all this!

Gently wipe her hair with a damp clean sponge, no drips!

Good luck

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my boy went through that, but a few new bath toys, and its his favorite time once again.

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it sounds like a phase my daughter was like this for awhile at around 20 months but she changed - i thought maybe her head went under when she was in the bath with her brother. Dont worry about wshing her hair alot. My son might wash his hair once a month!! and he is six. Little ones dont get very dirty hair. Let her go for awhile she will be alright

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YES YES YES!! my toddler was the same, he went through phases of loving the bath and then if had the slightest little slip or water splashed in his face that was it!! he would scream his head off everytime the bath was mentioned. At first I thought I would give him a bit of time and leave off the bath for a couple of days because to be honest I didn't know what else to do, then I thought sod it and bathed him regardless and tried my best to ignore the screaming. Not easy! I found that letting him see me in the bath rinsing my hair let him know it wasn't a big deal, i found that speaking very gently saying 'tip your head back' over and over very quietly seemed to make him calm a little.

it took a while but he is two and a half now and loves his bath even when things don't go as well as expected! it just takes time and patience and trying not to let yourself get mad, show her it's no big thing and she will realise it.

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Let her play in the bath for a few minutes before you start washing her down. Wash her head at the end and make it very quick . Wash the back of the head first, and use a sponge for the front. Good Luck!!

Or why don't you try taking a bath with her. That's what i do with my lill one and she loves it.

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its a normal thing.....my daughter was ther same now she is five she demands a bath......even if just in having dirt on her fingers....

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maybe i don't know something bad happened to her recently while someone was giving her a bath that she didn't like and that's why she is acting like that, cause my son got soap in his eyes once and he got upset and the next time he took a bath he was scared to get in he cried and i just had to explain to him what happen and let him know everything was going to be ok.

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yes, same happen with my girl she's fIve now and able to take showers with water running on her face. i introduced goggles. simple really give the goggle a go. put them on her while fully dress and flick a little water to show how it works. also give her baths without washing hair too. but really goggles are great ive recommended this to others and so far it hasn't failed.

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I think this probably happens to every baby at some point!! My son went through that, but after a couple of weeks he got over it!! I didn't stop giving him baths and I let him know that he needed to be a big boy and take a bath.. Don't worry about it!! Just be patient with her and let her go through her stage!! Good luck to you

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I think it is just a phase she will out grow it

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Yes, been there, I started taking a bath with my baby and it helped. I got out of that habit fast and would turn on the wiggles or favorite cd and just distract them from the running water. I think it's the running water that gets them. I read to him and just made it as fun as possible. I know this is messy but give her some shaving cream and some cups and let her make ice cream sundaes,

and when it's time to wash her hair make sure she has something in her hands and is occupied and just get a washcloth and wet her head, slowly don't stir her up. You will find something that works

Good luck

my son is 3 now and we can't get him out of the tub lol

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my2yr old hates having her hair washed, so we let her do it herself with a jug and an un-breakable mirror to watch what she's doing, it's still not 100% but it's better than it was. This summer we let her play with the hose pipe in her paddling pool and she was happy to hold it over her head I believe that had alot to with it too, just let her take charge then it won't seem like a huge traumatic experience that you're inflicting on her, good luck.

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she is growing into the phase where she is starting to understand her place in the world, and that it is a big place and she is small.

it is a phase, but you may find she gets more clingy, and generally scared of things

she needs your support and encouragement, and she will grow out of it and gain more confidence from the experience.

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have you tried having a bath together?obviously you wouldn't want that to go on too long but maybe you could try it a few times until she's a bit more confident.

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My 2 yr old went through the hair washing phase but she's fine with that now, I tell her to keep her eyes shut %26amp; her head back %26amp; it won't get in her eyes. Right now though she's got this thing about fluff in the bath! She has a bath with her 11 month old brother %26amp; sister %26amp; because they crawl around the floor they collect fluff which then floats around the bath, anyone would think it was a shark in her bath the way she screams at it so the last couple of nights I've been telling her to try to catch it which seems to be working!

As for your daughter not wanting to get in the bath I would try making it more fun %26amp; exciting, maybe tell her that the little people that live on her need a bath %26amp; if they don't they'll be upset. That's how I get my daughter to eat her tea, tell her the people in her tummy are hungry!

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I had to resort to washing my sons hair before he went into the bath. Holding him like a baby over the wash basin and using my hands talking and reassuring him as i was doing it i even told him after a couple of times that it was the way i used to wash his hair when he was a tiny baby. He soon got used to having his hair washed in the bath again.

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my son is 2 and hes the same yet he will play with the water but it has took a month to get to this point just stick with my son prefares to stand up during his bath and to splash me i get soaked the bathroom gets soaked but hes a litle calmer this way

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read in a book the other day that most kids go through this stage, unfortunately it didn't really have any suggestions that haven't already been suggested above.

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Hiya

My son went through this too, he is two and half now. he used to scream when i put him in the bath and would sob his heart out when i washed his hair. To resolve this i started lettin him have baths in the kitchen sink which he found hilarious and i gave him a little jug and encouraged him 'wash' his hair, this worked well and know he loves his baths again and doesnt mind too much having his hair washed.